Dating relationship tips dealing with rejection

Thus far, I've said: I have done so because saying "getting rejected", or "he/she got rejected", or even "coping with rejection" sends the wrong message.

When you do find success, you realize that it came the way most things in life happen — organically, through people you know.Matched with destiny, your future trips happily towards the light.This is the best case scenario, a situation that everybody assures you will happen, regardless of how dire it all looks.When you have a history, as I do, of being abandoned and rejected early, the sting stays with you for the rest of your life.When I was younger I gravitated toward men who would reject and abandon me and treat me badly.Because our ancestors survived by being a part of a tribe, this need remains inside us and means that memories of rejection are stronger and more easily remembered than those of physical pain.Give it a go yourself – thinking of some of your most painful memories will no doubt bring back emotionally painful thoughts over those times when you were in physical pain.Rejection plays a big part in all walks of life and online dating, like every other relationship, isn’t all flowers and butterflies all of the time.Yet, like many before me have said, it isn’t the rejection you should focus on, but the way you deal with it and rebound.So when I say in GBOT, "Don't take rejection personally." I am NOT in any way shape or form being flippant.I know how hard it is to do that, I have done that.

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