Yes, I know that may sound like a fairyland answer, but it’s often the truth.
Haven’t you ever met a girl you thought was the hottest thing in the world, then once you got to know her… And after you know how lame she is, you may still think she’s hot, but you’re just not really to her.
At this point, things are probably starting to get comfortable- you make plans regularly, you’re in contact more frequently, and a relationship seems just around the corner.
Now while you might start getting really excited by this prospect, this particular guy has probably gotten freaked out.
Some of the many ways that you can attract women are with your confidence, charisma, charm, humor and masculine vibe. Before I discovered what I now teach here at The Modern Man, I was going through life assuming that beautiful women couldn’t like me because I wasn’t good looking enough. When I interacted with beautiful women, NOTHING that I was saying and doing was making them feel any attraction because all I was doing was talking to them in a nice, friendly way and expecting to be LIKED for it.
I didn’t even know how to attract women and thought that if I wore good enough clothes, styled my hair right and show them how good of a guy I was, they would like me and give me a chance. No one had ever told me that we men need to ACTIVELY make women feel attracted to us based on what we are saying and doing during an interaction.
The reason why an ugly guy can have a hot girlfriend is that women can feel attracted to men for reasons other than looks.
I pointed out this realization to my sister and asked if she was as unsurprised by it as I was.
I saw that as the woman making a mistake or being stupid enough to fall for a guy like that.
I didn’t know that she could actually feel attracted to him for OTHER reasons.
Something suddenly dawned on me after a few seconds, something obvious and slightly disturbing.
All of the women were beautiful, and all of their husbands were not. I'm not talking about a Donald Trump and Ivana Trump situation.